Life is a roller coaster. It has a serious of unimaginable twists and twirls. There are numerous occasions in which one tends to act in a specified way. Several characteristics of a person are portrayed all through his life. Of all the characteristics I find the shyness as one of the most exotic attitude of the person. Shyness with members of the other sex is common among young people. Getting over self-consciousness to the point where one can relax and be friendly with those one most admires is a challenge. The more thrilled one is with the presence of the other person, the more likely one seems to be embarrassed, it seems. But with experience he/she gradually become more comfortable with the opposite sex. Then, as he/she develop poise and self-confidence, he/she discovers and put into practice more and more of the art of communicating. How to develop that poise and confidence is the question. Since girls grow up sooner, and are ready for dates before boys of their age and grade generally are, a particular problem for a teen-age girl is how to get a bashful boy to notice her. This is why girls' clubs so often center on planning boy-girl activities. Many a shy boy has come out of himself at a well-planned party. With encouragement he finds that he can carry on a conversation and have fun in a mixed group.